Be Happy

Remember, happiness doesn't depend on who you are and what you have; it depends solely on what you think.

Happiness depends on ourselves.

Everyone wants everything in his or her life all the material things in this life, but has anyone ever thought about how life will be when there will be happiness in one’s life? So is life really about the 'money', the 'cash', who has the biggest gold chain or who drives the shiniest or fastest car, who sells the most albums or who has the most respect? Today happiness is viewed in many different ways. Everyone defines happiness according to their personal perspectives. Each individual describes their inner feelings in a way that you can't compare with another. Happiness originally and logically means the inner state of well being or a pleasurable or satisfying experience. It enables you to profit from your highest thoughts, wisdom, intelligence, spiritual values in your life. What makes you happy and what makes me happy are different things. Whatever it is that gives you warm fuzzes is determined by you, and only you. This difference is what makes the world interesting. 

Happiness is life's most cherished goal. On every continent, in every country and in every culture, when people are asked, "What do you want?" the most popular answer is "happiness." When parents are asked, "What do you most want for your children?" the answer is "happiness." Happiness is the goal that makes other life goals—like success, prosperity and relationships—feel meaningful and enjoyable.

Most of the happiness that we experience comes from the feeling of love. So many people look to their love relationships, especially marriage to give them the happiness that they cannot find on their own. Love is not enough to provide happiness, then there must be many frustrated lovers in the world. If we realize that love by itself will not bring happiness, then hopefully we will be more tolerant of the imperfections of those we love. If our relationships have their problems and if those we love do not always meet our expectations it doesn't mean that we have lost our chance for happiness. When we do not expect love to give us the happiness we seen, there will be more room for forgiveness of the imperfections and problems that always accompany love. 

A complex thing it is, this happiness. If we had to ask each person to rate their happiness on a scale from 1-10, how people do you think would even be half way? I don't think that many.
Everybody in this world has the right to happiness. However, I don’t think we should seek our happiness by all means. I don’t agree that people should be selfish in order to get whatever they want. Of course, I’m not saying that there aren’t any selfish people in this world, but some people are more selfish than others .So we need to have some balance in what we want and what would make us happy. Also we need to make sure that we don’t burden ourselves in the sake of others' happiness.

Happiness to me is complete love and understanding of the being that you are, and the soul that you have. When a person understands the purpose of their life, they are content, and therefore, happy.

It's official—the pursuit of happiness has sped up! We are chasing after happiness faster than ever. And the faster we run, the longer the race becomes. In recent years, our happiness levels have not risen. We are experiencing what researchers call "static happiness." In the 1940s, when people were asked, "How happy are you?" the average score was 7.7 out of 10. Most recently, the average score was 7.2 out of 10.
Money can’t buy you love. It can’t buy you happiness either. Today’s materialistic world often urges us to buy the coolest gadgets, the trendiest clothes, bigger and better things, but research shows that possessions and purchases don’t buy us happiness..

Money, gold and all the artificial things don’t bring happiness in our lives. Happiness can be bought by simple means also. Life never turns the way we want it to be but the only thing we can do is that we can live the best way we can. There is no perfect life but we can make it perfect by filling it with perfect moments. No one in this life can buy happiness. Happiness can be seen simple things. Simple things can make you happy. Helping a needy, just having a seat on the beach all alone something, getting we t in the rain. Al these are simple things that can make life worth living and bring happiness in our life.

 Life is very short so the only thing we can do is to live to the fullest and to achieve this we can make it happen by taking chance in our lives.

It is said…..

Happiness depends on us. Take a chance, tell the truth, learn to say no, spend money on things you love, hug someone who is really in need of a hug… these are all simple and small things that can make life worth living.

Unfortunately, it’s hard to escape the trap of materialism, and find happiness in ways other than buying stuff online or finding joy in the mall. But it’s possible. Here’s a guide to finding a materialism-free life and discovering true happiness. The best kind of happiness is when you know that you are able to care for someone and that they may care about you. They may just be your friends but you care about them enough that you want what is best for them and in return they want the same for you. This kind of happiness is of the purest form. It is an unspoken agreement between people that says that each of you will do whatever they can to make the other person happy and that in this process you, yourself, will be able to be happy and enjoy the moment. Happiness may come and go like the seasons but in the end, every moment that you have that is filled with happiness will be well worth the sad or unnerving ones that you have had to endure.